Father’s Day: Divorced Dads

Divorce is a significant aspect of life for millions of Americans, with the national divorce rate standing at 48%. Many divorced couples share children, leading to the complexities of joint parental care and the division of time spent with their kids. In light of this, we conducted a survey of 3,000 divorced fathers to understand how many will not be able to spend Father's Day 2024 with their children.

Over 1 in 5 divorced dads (22%) are likely not seeing their kids this Father's Day.

For those divorced dads unable to spend Father's Day with their children, missing important moments was cited as the most challenging aspect for 50%. This emotional struggle is compounded by feelings of disconnection, as reported by 26% of the respondents. Another 26% mentioned the associated mental distress as the most challenging, and 4% did not like having to explain the situation to others.

When it came to the specifics of activities to do on Father's Day, dads were asked about their ideal way to spend the day. A significant 40% enjoy having brunch with their children the most. This preference underscores the importance of shared meals as a bonding activity. Following this, 20% most enjoy watching a movie or playing games at home, activities that allow for relaxed, quality time together.

Additionally, 15% of dads said they like going on a hike or engaging in other outdoor activities. This choice reflects a desire to enjoy nature and physical activity with their children. Meanwhile, 14% mentioned that working on a DIY project together brings them the most happiness, indicating the value placed on collaborative, hands-on activities. Lastly, 11% said they enjoy watching or playing sports together, an activity that can strengthen bonds through shared interests.

Beyond Father's Day, divorced dads were asked which holidays are most important to them in terms of spending time with their kids. The responses revealed a hierarchy of significant occasions. A notable 34% said their children’s birthdays were most important, emphasizing the personal and individual celebration of their kids' milestones. Christmas followed with 23%, highlighting its cultural significance and the tradition of family gatherings.

Father's Day itself was important for 22% of the dads, underlining the day’s personal significance despite the challenges they face. Summer vacations were valued by 11%, reflecting the extended time and unique experiences they offer. Finally, 8% considered Thanksgiving most important, a holiday that traditionally emphasizes family togetherness and gratitude.

The survey results provide a poignant snapshot of the struggles and values of divorced fathers. The high percentage of dads who won't be spending Father's Day with their children underscores the emotional toll of divorce and the complexities of co-parenting arrangements. The varied preferences for Father’s Day activities highlight the different ways dads seek to connect with their children, whether through shared meals, entertainment, outdoor activities, or collaborative projects.

Moreover, the emphasis on children’s birthdays and Christmas as significant holidays for spending time together reflects the deep desire of divorced dads to be present for important milestones and cultural celebrations. These insights not only shed light on the personal struggles of divorced fathers but also emphasize the importance of creating supportive environments and flexible arrangements that prioritize the well-being of both parents and children.